Create the love and relationship you deeply want — without losing yourself or waiting for someone else to change first.
Single. Dating. Partnered. Married.
September 16–18, 2026 · LIVE on Zoom · 45 minutes a day
You can be incredibly successful in life… and still find relationships harder than they should be.
Maybe you’re single and tired of finding yourself in different relationships with strangely familiar patterns.
Maybe you’re dating and wondering why you overthink, over-give, pull away, or become a different version of yourself once you really care.
Or maybe you’re married and somewhere between building careers, raising children and managing life together, you’ve lost some of the closeness, intimacy and connection you once had.
Deeply Desired is about understanding what’s happening underneath your relationships — and learning a different way to love, connect and relate.
Whether you’re creating your next relationship or transforming the one you’re already in.
Most of us focus on the other person.
But underneath the circumstances are often patterns we don’t recognize while we’re inside them.
Over three days, I’m going to help you see yours — and show you what becomes possible when you stop relating from protection and start creating connection differently.
Wednesday, September 16 · 1 PM ET
Why you keep experiencing the same relationship dynamics — even when you know better.
Every relationship has a dance. Something happens. You interpret what it means. You feel something. You react or protect yourself. The other person responds. And suddenly you’re inside the same dynamic again.
On Day 1, you’ll learn how to recognize your relationship cycle and identify what happens to you when you don’t feel loved, chosen, understood or connected.
You’ll leave understanding: “This is the pattern I’ve been repeating.”
Thursday, September 17 · 2 PM ET
What happens inside you when love doesn’t feel safe?
We all protect ourselves. Some of us pursue. Some control. Some over-function. Some people-please. Some withdraw. Some shut down. Some become fiercely independent.
The behavior isn’t the deepest part. The real question is: What are you protecting yourself from?
You’ll leave understanding: “This is what I’m protecting — and I don’t have to react the same way anymore.”
Friday, September 18 · 1 PM ET
Learn how to stay connected to yourself while deeply connecting with someone else.
On Day 3, I’ll introduce you to a practical process for navigating your relationships differently:
You’ll leave understanding: “I can create connection without losing myself.”
You’ll begin understanding how your patterns influence who you choose, what you tolerate, how you attach and who you become once you care.
This isn’t about learning how to “get a man.” It’s about becoming capable of recognizing, choosing and creating the kind of relationship you actually want.
Maybe you’re ready to:
You don’t need your partner to participate.
We’ll focus on understanding the dynamic between you, recognizing what belongs to you and learning how to show up differently — without waiting for your partner to go first.
Maybe you:
You’ll receive:
Everything in Basic, plus:
VIP Coaching & Q&A
Monday, September 21 · 1 PM ET
The VIP session is group coaching, so please only share what you’re comfortable discussing with other participants.
Hi, I’m Ludmila Woodruff.
I’m a Relationship & Life Advisor to high-performing women, executives and couples, and the creator of the Deeply Connected Method.
I’ve helped countless women and couples break the patterns keeping them stuck and create deeper love, intimacy, connection and partnership — whether they’re looking for the right relationship or rebuilding the one they already have.
My work goes beyond surface-level relationship advice. I help people understand what’s happening underneath their reactions, conflicts and relationship patterns.
The over-functioning that looks like caring. The control that looks like helping. The people-pleasing that eventually becomes resentment. The independence that can make receiving difficult.
My professional training spans Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic attachment work, nervous-system regulation, emotional intelligence, attachment, CBT, breathwork and trauma-informed coaching.
I’m not bringing you into Deeply Desired to overwhelm you with theory. I’m here to help you see what you haven’t been able to see — and begin changing it.
When you join Deeply Desired, you’ll receive access to our private Facebook group for the experience.
This is where you’ll receive:
Participation is always optional. Relationships are personal, so we ask every participant to respect the privacy of other women and keep personal stories shared inside the community confidential.
No. Deeply Desired is designed for single, dating, partnered and married women.
If you’re single, you’ll begin understanding how your patterns influence who you choose, how you connect and what happens once you become emotionally invested.
If you’re already in a relationship, you’ll apply the work to the relationship dynamic you’re experiencing now.
No. This experience is for you.
We’re not going to spend three days trying to figure out how to change your partner. We’ll focus on understanding the dynamic, recognizing what belongs to you and learning how to show up differently.
You’re absolutely welcome. You don’t have to be in crisis to want more depth, intimacy, connection or understanding in your relationship.
No problem. All three core sessions will be recorded.
Basic participants receive 6 months of replay access to all three training recordings. VIP participants receive lifetime replay access to all three training recordings.
Basic gives you the complete three-day live experience, practical exercises, access to the private Facebook community and 6 months of replay access.
VIP gives you everything in Basic, plus lifetime access to the three core training recordings and an additional VIP Coaching & Q&A on Monday, September 21 at 1 PM ET.
No. The VIP session is group coaching, not private 1:1 coaching.
Other VIP participants will be present and may hear what you share. Please only disclose information you’re comfortable discussing in a group setting.
All sales are final.
Due to the digital and live nature of Deeply Desired, all purchases are non-refundable from the moment of purchase. Please make sure Deeply Desired and the access level you select are right for you before completing your purchase.
If you’re unable to attend the live sessions, you will still receive access to the recordings according to your purchase level.
No refunds will be issued for missed live sessions, change of circumstances, or failure to access or complete the program.
Deeply Desired is an educational and coaching experience designed for personal development and relationship growth.
It is not psychotherapy, couples therapy, mental-health treatment or medical care. Participation cannot guarantee a particular relationship outcome or another person’s behavior.
They change when you begin relating differently.
September 16–18, 2026 · LIVE on Zoom
Wednesday, September 16 — 1 PM ET
Thursday, September 17 — 2 PM ET
Friday, September 18 — 1 PM ET
45 minutes a day
Basic — $27 · 3 Live Trainings + 6 Months Replay Access
VIP — $55 · 3 Live Trainings + Lifetime Replay Access + VIP Coaching & Q&A
VIP Coaching & Q&A: Monday, September 21 — 1 PM ET